The In-Depth Buyer's Guide 2019
Best Prostate Massagers
Over 60+ Hours Testing & Reviewing 10 Prostate Massagers
- 1 Winner: THOR by GIDDI
- 2 Top 10 Prostate Massagers Rated
- 2.1 - October 2019
- 2.2 4 main factors come down to picking the top prostate massagers.
- 2.3 Best Prostate
- 2.4 Massager
- 2.5 THOR By GIDDI
- 2.6 Best Size
- 2.7 Prostate Massager
- 2.8 TOMO by GIDDI
- 2.9 Best Easy To Use
- 2.10 Prostate Massager
- 2.11 Aneros Vice
- 2.12 Best Waterproof
- 2.13 Proststae Massager
- 2.14 Lelo Hugo
- 2.15 Best Heated
- 2.16 Prostate Massager
- 2.17 L’Amourose Rosa Rouge
- 2.18 Best Double-Headed
- 2.19 Prostate Massager
- 2.20 Lelo Loki Wave
- 2.21 Best Prostate Massager
- 2.22 For Beginners
- 2.23 Lelo Loki
- 2.24 Best Battery Life
- 2.25 Prostate Massager
- 2.26 Nexus Revo Stealth
- 2.27 Best Stainless Steel
- 2.28 Prostate Massager
- 2.29 Pure Wand by Njoy
- 2.30 Best Slim
- 2.31 Prostate Massager
- 2.32 Aneros Helix Syn
- 2.33 The Right prostate massager
- 2.34 How We Reviewed the Prostate Massagers
- 2.35 It comes down to 5 factors.
- 2.36 Price - Is It A Good Value?
- 2.37 Shape & Size - Girth & Length
- 2.38 Functionality - Rotation & Vibration
- 2.39 Ease of Use - Remote Control vs Manual
- 2.40 Battery Life & Recharge Time - How Long Does It Run For?
- 2.41 Top 10 Prostate Massagers Compared
- 2.42 How do they compare? Learn more here.
- 2.43 Frequently Asked Questions
- 3 Prostate Massager Related Articles
Winner: THOR by GIDDI
9.9 out of 10
Prostate massagers are used to stimulate the prostate. The prostate is a walnut-sized gland located about 3 inches inside the male anal passage. Prostate stimulation leads to extraordinary orgasms and can improve your sexual health. With hundreds of products out there, it can be difficult to determine which is the best prostate massager in 2019.
After hours of research, we’ve concluded that THOR by GIDDI is the #1 prostate massager. Why?
THOR is girthy, hands-free, and has a wireless remote control. With a diameter of 1.7 inches at its widest and an insertable length of 3.75 inches, it fits snuggly, leading to mind-blowing stimulation. It has a rotating head with three rotation speeds, and 16 powerful vibration modes. With the remote control, you can easily cycle through these modes, curate your experience, and control your climax. Moreover, it is fully rechargeable and is waterproof for easy cleanup.
So without further ado, here are the top prostate massagers for 2019.
Top 10 Prostate Massagers Rated
- October 2019
How We Decided
4 main factors come down to picking the top prostate massagers.
Is It A Good Value?
Girth & Length
Rotation & Vibration
It Has To Perform
Remote Control vs Manual
THOR By GIDDI
Why We Like It: THOR is the best prostate massager out there, hands down. It delivered the most enjoyable and reliable orgasms among all the adult toys we tested. We love THOR because of the girthy bulge in its shaft, which is the largest among the prostate massagers we reviewed. THOR is 1.7 inches at its widest and gives a satisfyingly full sensation while remaining in place for amazing hands free stimulation. A waterproof design makes THOR nice to use in the shower and very easy to clean.
The girth combined with a highly stimulating rotating head and powerful vibrations delivered the most intense orgasms we’ve ever experienced. THOR has three rotation speeds and 16 vibration modes. With its wireless remote control, you can easily cycle through these modes to curate your experience for a mind-blowing climax.
THOR is double headed with two powerful motors so you can simultaneously massage your prostate and perineum (area between the scrotum and anus). Its rotating head delivers incredibly precise prostate stimulation and can be used with or without vibration. With an insertable length of up to nearly four inches, men of all shapes and sizes will be able to stimulate their prostate.
It’s the most girthy toy we reviewed, which makes for an enjoyably snug fit. This might be intimidating for beginners and could be too big for someone who has never had anal sex or is new to anal play. GIDDI does make a slightly smaller prostate massager, TOMO, which could be better for first timers.
Overall, THOR delivered the most intense prostate stimulation among all the prostate massagers we tested. It is a luxurious prostate toy with the features of other more expensive devices, and more. All of THOR’s features, combined with quality and price, make THOR our Editor’s Choice.
Why We Like It: TOMO is the best size, shape and price for beginner to intermediate users. With that said, our reviewers are very experienced and reported receiving incredible orgasms from TOMO. With a diameter of 1.25 inches at its widest and an insertable length of 3 inches, it will reach your prostate, providing a premium massage without making you feel too stretched.
The curve of TOMO follows the natural curvature of the body, making it a comfortable fit. Like THOR by GIDDI, it has a dual motor and is double headed so it simultaneously stimulates your prostate and perineum. It is also waterproof, making it usable in the shower and easy to clean.
The primary head has a come hither motion for direct prostate stimulation with nine different speeds. It also has nine powerful vibration modes, which can be toggled on and off while simultaneously enjoying the come hither motion. Premium features at an affordable price make TOMO by GIDDI the best value prostate massager on the market.
Best Easy To Use
Why We Like It: The shape of Aneros Vice sets it apart from other prostate massagers or male vibrators. It has three distinct bulbs that are linked together to form the dildo. These bulbs add a bit of kink when inserting this toy. Each bulb pops into place generating ripples of stimulation.
The sensation is similar to anal beads being pushed, one by one, into the rectum. A feeling of pressure that builds and then subsides. For those less experienced in anal play, this may be uncomfortable at first. But if you get into it, it’s a unique, pleasurable experience. The shape also ensures that once it’s inserted, it stays in place, like an anal plug or vibrating butt plug.
Why We Like It: The Lelo Hugo really packs a punch. It features very strong vibrations in a range of settings. The vibrations are much stronger than in other Lelo prostater massagers. It’s a hands-free device and you can remotely control its settings. It can also be used with or without the remote, depending on your preference.
It also features SenseMotion technology. To use the SenseMotion mode, you need to just turn the remote and the toy on. Both will start to vibrate at a low level. On the first SenseMotion mode, as you tilt the remote the intensity of the vibrations will increase. As soon as the remote is tilted 90 degrees, it’s at its highest speed. Laying it flat again reduces it down to the lowest speed.
The major downside is the price -- $219. It’s much more expensive than toys with similar features. If you’re not sure which toy is best for you, forking up $219 for one massager is not great.
Why We Like It: It brings the heat. No seriously, it heats up. This feature sets it apart from the other prostate vibrating massagers we tried and we thoroughly enjoyed it. However, it did take some getting used to and may not be the best feature for all users.
The vibration patterns are outstanding, both in strength and the number of combinations and intensities possible. In total, there are 9 vibration modes and 12 speed settings. The packaging is also beautiful. The downside is that it’s a vibrator prostate massager that does not come with a wireless remote control and yet it still costs over $200!
Why We Like It: The Lelo Loki Wave has the same shape as the original Loki but this version features an additional motor in the secondary arm at the base of the shaft. Both heads retain their curves to ensure maximum comfort when the Loki Wave is fully inserted.
The primary head features a come-hither motion and the device has 5 “wave” settings and 5 regular vibration settings. The tapered tip makes it incredibly easy to insert and comfortable, and overall it provides a great pleasure experience. However, due to the “wave” or come-hither motion feature, it’s pretty noisy.
The biggest downside is the big price tag -- $219. It’s much more expensive than toys with similar features.
Best Prostate Massager
Why We Like It: Loki has great girth and an insertable length of nearly 4 inches, which provides the full sensation popular among more experienced users. The shaft narrows towards the base making it very comfortable to use, almost like a butt plug.
It’s easy to insert and works well as an essentials male masterbator. There is also a wider flared base on which makes it easy to hold. There are 6 different vibration modes, ranging from one constant pattern to 5 alternating waves and pulses. All feature different speeds. The handle has 4 buttons which make it incredibly easy to operate, even when in use.
Best Battery Life
Why We Like It: The Nexus Revo Stealth is named because the shaft of the toy rotates as it’s inside you, the rotating tip is set to provide some amazing stimulation to the prostate aka male gspot.
There are 2 rotation speeds. The base of the toy also vibrates, so as it rests against the perineum, it will provide some deep vibrating sensations, like a vibrating bullet, while the rotations massage the prostate. There are 6 vibration speeds, ranging from standard continuous vibrations to various pulses and waves. The toy is not completely silent, but it is one of the quieter toys.
Best Stainless Steel
Why We Like It: It’s a straight forward, medical grade, stainless steel dildo. No moving parts, no motors, no buttons. It has two bulbs, one at each end. One bulb is an inch in diameter, and the other is larger, 1.5 inches in diameter. The fun wand has an insertable length of 8.5 inches.
Unlike medical grade silicone prostate massagers that can only be used with water based lube, this is stainless steel so you can use it with silicone lube and other anal lubes. The Pure Wand holds temperature remarkably well which can be fun to play with. You can adjust the temperature of the wand by putting it in a bowl of warm water, or, alternatively, in a bowl of cold water, and alternate those sensations. It’s one of the toys for women and men to use solo, and it’s a fun sex toy for couples.
Why We Like It: Aneros Helix Syn is an anal toy for those who aren’t looking for any bells and whistles. Unlike prostate massager vibrators, Aneros Helix Syn is designed to be used differently than your standard prostate toy and doesn’t have a motor. It’s a nonvibrating prostate massager. Make sure to use water based lube so it’s easy to insert.
Instead of thrusting or moving the toy in and out with your hands, the idea is to use your pelvic floor muscles to help move the toy. In a nutshell, once the toy is inserted you will clench, this will pull the toy further inside, and will gently begin to stimulate the prostate, though it’s not as intense as a vibrating stimulator. It takes a bit of effort but if you can get the hang of it, there’s something beautiful in its simplicity. And it’s the cheapest toy on our list.
The Right prostate massager
Finding the right massager for you will come down to a lot of personal preferences. What size and girth do you like for instance.
For the rest of the important factors, our buying guide has you covered. Our tips will help you make the right choice.
How We Reviewed the Prostate Massagers
It comes down to 5 factors.
Price - Is It A Good Value?
When you’re looking for a sex toy or pleasure device, you don’t want to skimp. No one should be putting a cheap piece of plastic in an intimate area of their body. That being said, you also don’t need to break the bank. There’s a happy medium to be found in a high-quality product made from body safe silicone that is affordable. We recommend prostate massagers in the $70-$170 USD range that have clear user guides, product reviews, and product company information.
Shape & Size - Girth & Length
Prostate massagers come in a variety of shapes and sizes. Depending on how deep you want to be penetrated, you may opt for a prostate massager with more girth and a longer (or shorter) insertable length. It all depends on what feels comfortable to you and brings you the most pleasure. The shape is also something to consider. When using a prostate massager, many people lie on their side in the fetal position or on their backs with their knees up. This allows the curved shaft of the primary head of the prostate massager to follow the natural path to your prostate. However, knowing what feels good to you and how the shape works best with your body will lead to your best experience and improve your prostate health.
Functionality - Rotation & Vibration
Using a double-headed prostate massager with dual motors is key. This allows you to simultaneously massage both the prostate and perineum, the area located between the scrotum and anus. This simultaneous stimulation maximizes your sexual pleasure experience. The features to look for are primary head motion (come-hither motion or rotation), multiple vibration modes, and a wireless remote control. You can easily cycle through these multiple modes and find the rhythm that works best for you. With a remote controlled prostate massager, it truly becomes a hands-free experience which allows you to enjoy the pleasure even more and ultimately achieve incredible orgasms.
Ease of Use - Remote Control vs Manual
Prostate massage is pretty easy to understand. The prostate is a walnut-sized gland located about 3 inches inside the male anal passage, just below the bladder. The male prostate can be massaged (also known as prostate milking) or stimulated by inserting a finger in the anus or using a prostate massager. Prostate stimulation can lead to extraordinary orgasms.
That being said, the prostate massager you purchase should have a clear user guide and the product company should have top tips for how best to use it, most likely found on their website. The materials should be straight-forward and easy to understand. And should you have questions, you should be able to contact the product company. If these things are not available, that’s a red flag that you might be getting a shoddy product from a disreputable company.
Battery Life & Recharge Time - How Long Does It Run For?
This one is pretty easy. You don’t want your prostate massager to run out of juice before you climax. And after you’re done, you want it the rechargeable battery charge quickly so you can experience that mind-blowing pleasure again. Generally speaking, 60 mins of battery life is sufficient and around 2 hours of recharge time is standard..
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Frequently Asked Questions
I’m new to prostate massage. Which device is right for me?
This comes down to preference. If you are an experienced user looking for a snug, full sensation, then we recommend a toy with more girth. THOR by GIDDI, our favorite among the toys we tested, as well as the Aneros Vice are great options.
For beginner and intermediate users, we recommend a slimmer prostate massager. Among the ones we tested, we liked TOMO by GIDDI the best as well as the Aneros Helix Syn.
Prostate devices have different sizes and girths. Those who have experience with anal play may enjoy a larger device. While others may prefer a slimmer toy. Ultimately, this is a personal decision and preferences may vary. People of all shapes and sizes from across the globe enjoy prostate play and own several pleasure devices.
We should note there are lots of other brands and anal sex toys, penis rings or cock rings, pspot stimulators, gspot vibrators, and any spot vibrators that provide great sexual pleasure experiences and vibrator anals. A few honorable mentions that did not make the list are the Aneros Progasm, Aneros Helix Syn Trident, Je Joue Nuo Vibrating Butt Plug, Vedo Cowboy, Njoy Pfun Plug, Lovense Edge prostate massager, products by Rude Boy, and Rabbit vibrators. We chose the best prostate massagers vibrating for your pleasure, like a sex ed class in pleasure.
Are all prostate massagers hands-free?
Once inserted properly, most prostate massagers can be held in place hands-free by contractions of the rectum muscles. This may take some practice but can be a highly enjoyable method of stimulation. Many devices feature multiple vibration and/or rotation modes. If that is the case, you will need to touch the device to control these features.
However, some devices include a wireless remote control which provides a truly hands-free experience. For more intense massage, we recommend a combination of hands-on and hands-free stimulation. Prostate massagers can be used solo or as a couples toy.
What is the best position for prostate massage?
Many people enjoy using their prostate massager while lying on their backs with knees up and legs spread. Another enjoyable position is on your side in the fetal position. We suggest that you safely experiment with different positions in order to find what works best for you.
How should I insert my prostate massager?
Prostate massagers should be inserted slowly and carefully, ensuring that the primary head curves up towards your stomach. The secondary head should touch your perineum, located between the anus and scrotum. Never force insertion and always stop immediately if you feel pain.
Should I use lube?
Yes, personal lubricants should be used when engaging in prostate massage. We recommend waterbased lubricant aka water based lube as opposed to silicone based lube and hybrids. We do not recommend using oils or creams as lubricants due to the sensitive nature of the tissues inside the rectum.
Proper use of lubricant is very important for several reasons: ease of insertion, overall comfort during use, and proper functioning of your toy. Both the rectum and your toy should be well-lubricated so that the massager is easy to insert and is able to move freely throughout the massage. Insufficient lubrication could also cause discomfort. If this results, discontinue use or remove and reapply lubricant.
How often do I need to clean my toy?
Always clean your prostate massager before and after each use. To clean it, wash it in warm water with a respected antibacterial soap. Pat dry with a lint-free towel. Never use cleansers containing alcohol, petrol or acetone.
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